What is
bdsm for beginners? It's basically sensation play or perhaps a very gentle form of BDSM play. Do not be scared by "light bondage" or "BDSM." Those words can feel very intimidating for beginners, but it needn't be. Did you know that it can be hard and rough or slow and mild? If you are a beginner, you may enjoy play that relies on surprises and stimulation.
Here are a few ideas on how to introduce light bondage:
Cold-
Deliver icy cold excitement and view you partner respond with goose bumps by running an ice cube down your partner's neck, on the back, or between their legs. Cooling personal lubricant is another way to add cold excitement in the bedroom.

Hot-
Hot wax or even a hot stone massage is really a fun way to experiment. You need to be careful that you apply specially designed massage candles or even the wax could be too hot and burn. (Massage candles are designed to burn at a lower temperature than the usual regular candle and are usually made from soy wax. Soy wax can be biodegradable and easy to clean up.) Although warming lubricant just isn't hot, will still be a fun and different sensation when experimenting with temperature.
Stimulants
Sexual stimulants provide extra sensation, which is perfect for the nipples, clitoris or another parts of the body. Sensation balms usually tingle and so are ideal for partner participation.
Deprivation-
Sensation play not only includes adding sensations, additionally, it may include depriving them of a sensation. This results in heightening the residual senses. This really is referred to as sensory deprivation. Blindfolds and handcuffs work best for sensory deprivation.
Tickle-
Feather ticklers are an easy way to inspire laughter (or torture)!
Flogging-
This is another word that scares people. Flogging and impact play can be fun and erotic. Erotic spanking is completed with an open hand or a flogger. There are many different kinds of floggers that deliver different sensations:
Super Light: silk or satin
Light: deerskin or lightweight suede
Medium: elk hide, moose or heavier suede
Hard: braided, buffalo hide, bull hide or rubber
The length of the tassels, plus the thickness with the tassels can affect the effect of a flogging. The location on the body where you land may also determine how much a flogging will sting.
Paddling-
Erotic spanking can be delivered using a paddle. Many people like to generate a paddling over their knees. If the paddle is heavy, then your wollup will be more painful. Ouch! For novices, leather paddles deliver a lesser blow.
Prickly-
A Wartenberg Wheel was originally designed like a medical device to try nerve response. Many people like to begin using these pinwheels as a sensation instrument over their partner's flesh. It delivers a prickly sensation but does not hurt or break your skin.
So, exactly what are you waiting for? A little bit of cold, hot or spanking never hurt anyone. Provided that two consenting adults are involved, HAVE FUN!!